When the kids and I arrived home on Sunday, Laddie was making weird
whimpering noises. Sarah let him out of his cage, and he bolted for the
stove. He was absolutely obsessed. After about 5 minutes watching
Laddie’s frantic sniffing and digging, I figured
it out. We had a mouse.
I saw said mouse about three hours later while talking to The Spousal
Unit about his (TSU’s) discovery of a mouse in the house. Yes, I
screamed into the phone. No, I did not jump on any chairs.
Laddie has been absolutely nuts on mouse patrol. It’s clear only he (and
sometimes Sydney) know what is going on. They are running on pure
instinct — doing what Scottish Terriers do naturally: hunt vermin. It
is both funny and interesting to watch my beloved
pet turn into the small Scottish wolf with a mission.
There has been talk on
the Smack blog that basically boils down to this: why don’t we do
what creatively comes naturally to us. Why do some people need to follow
the Scrapbook divas? Why do some people do all they can to become
divas, but fail to be chosen time and again. Why
scrap what some “authority” tells you to do, or in the style they deem
“correct”?
I once submitted pages to a design contest — then, immediately after
mailing my package, realized that it was a total waste of my time and
postage money. Never did it again.
I once applied to a design team. When I saw who was chosen and their
style (throw everything from a particular manufacturer on a page –
a.k.a. product vomit), I realized my style was not one that would sell
tons of product. It’s all about sales, not about good
design or technique. I never did that again.
So, I stick to what I like. I pull together some pretty nice layouts and
cards, if I say so myself. I share my work with a non-competitive and
very creative bunch of paper artists when I’m in the mood — or I have
time to post a photo.
But it’s all on my terms, and no one else’s. Because in the end, the one
who really cares the most about what I’ve created is me. Like Laddie, I
am going to keep digging, and searching, and doing what comes naturally
to me.
Christmas Planning
Went out of town for 24 hours to spend some time at the Club Scrap
Headquarters in Appleton and spend some money at their warehouse sale. I
purchased a number of project kits that I should be able to turn into
quick and nice Christmas presents.
I really should sit down and look at all the things I have purchased in
the last 6 months. I have a feeling that I have all the Christmas
presents purchased, except for The Spousal Unit and the Kids. Maybe I
should do that Tuesday night after supper. Then I
could start wrapping, and be WAY ahead of the program. Wouldn’t that be
nice!
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The Birthday Cards are Rolling in!
As this is my birthday month, I’ve started to receive birthday greetings
from my fellow Club Scrappers. I’m starting the scanning to my Flickr
gallery for this year’s card shower. You can click here, or click on the
link in the side bar. I’ll keep updating
it throughout the month.
This is my reward for making cards the past 11 months — a parade of creativity in my mailbox almost every day. It’s great!
Brain Pain
With the removal of my wisdom tooth, I am reminded again of why I like
Vicodin: it gets rid of the pain, doesn’t make me nauseous, and just
makes me slightly sleepy.
I woke up with a massive migraine after a night of random awakenings due
to tooth removal pain. Unfortunately, my migraine meds are all at work
— where I left most everything on Monday. The migraine quickly
escalated into a barfing and blinding pain. That’s
when I decided to up the Vicodin dosage to see if it could replace the
missing migraine meds.
It worked — at least it made the migraine more manageable, and I was
able to (fitfully) sleep until I got rid of it. I was able to rejoin the
land of the living around 3pm today.
I know this has absolutely nothing to do with creativity, unless you
think along the lines of creative pain medication. It worked, the brain
pain is gone, and the tooth socket is doing OK, too.
How I Spent My Monday
From the Crafty blog, where I am participating in NaBloPoMo:
I had an emergency wisdom tooth extraction today; this afternoon to be exact. It’s not how I planned to spend my day, but that’s what happened when I saw my dentist for an infection that had been intensifying over the weekend.
So, I had a hot date for an oral surgery this afternoon. Fortunately, it was a very easy extraction, as the tooth was above ground with nice straight roots. Now, Vicodin and an ice pack are my very best friends.
So, how did you spend your day?
How I Spent My Monday
I had an emergency wisdom tooth extraction today; this afternoon to be
exact. It’s not how I planned to spend my day, but that’s what happened
when I saw my dentist for an infection that had been intensifying over
the weekend.
So, I had a hot date for an oral surgery this afternoon. Fortunately, it
was a very easy extraction, as the tooth was above ground with nice
straight roots. Now, Vicodin and an ice pack are my very best friends.
So, how did you spend your day?
Licensed to Wreck/Create
I mentioned in yesterday’s post that I will be purging and rearranging my work area.
My husband is appalled. Not because I am purging, but because I will be
moving furniture. He seems to have this idea that I can’t redecorate or
rearrange furniture without his minute by minute instruction.
As you may recall, I had to wait until he went out of town for a week to
get rid of the crappy carpet on the stairs, and fix them up. (project
link here)
I also had to take the bull by the horns to paint my work area (painting
over some really ugly paneling ) a nice lavender, and get new flooring.
When I told him I would have a friend help me install the flooring
after I painted, he freaked. He freaked even
more when I presented all the research on how to paint over paneling,
and showed him the cans of paint and primer.
He did wind up helping, but he was a pain-in-the-ass. Even my friend
said so. But the room turned out great. Just the way I wanted it. Still
looks great two years later.
After these two incident, I decided to get the objective opinion from a
professional — handyman. I explained to this guy my husband’s
reactions, how I am completely capable of handling power tools and
cleaning them up, painting, demolition, etc.
The handyman listened carefully to my story, then made this diagnosis:
I’m not doing anything wrong. It’s my husband. I scare the heck out of
him because I am capable. I’m competition. That’s why he nags, and
criticizes, and is a general pain-in-the-ass. And
that I should continue doing what I am, and continue to do as much of
it behind his back so I don’t have to put up with his crap.
I have a license to do what I want to do, in my space. Even though my
husband is flipping over my latest plans, they are my plans. It’s my
workroom and I’ll move what I want to.
Purge – The Sequel
I have a very small work area. It’s an alcove off our bedroom upstairs.
The light could be better, it could be warmer/cooler (depending on the
season), but it is all mine.
Lately I haven’t been satisfied with my space. I had two problems:
— clutter
— things weren’t in a logical location.
I have piles of clutter, some of it neatly hidden, other not so neatly
hidden. As soon as I get rid of a bunch of clutter, more moves in. I’m
not sure how that happens, as I don’t buy that much stuff anymore. Maybe
it’s all the Here Mama’s I get from the kids
(Here Mama, this is for you. Here Mama, I drew these twelve pictures
during free time for you.).
My scrapbooking supplies are housed in three different locations in my
workspace. My stamps are also in three locations. I have computer
software and manuals everywhere. And I have computer peripherals
everywhere. I look like the biggest techie in the world
(but really, most of my computer stuff is pure crap!), wires
everywhere.
After a lot of thinking and some measuring, I have come up with a plan
to rearrange my workspace. It will start with a major purge of sewing
and scrapbooking items, putting some stuff into deep storage, and moving
things around.
Mean Girls
I posted this entry on my Crafty blog today, but I thought it appropriate in this forum as well. Sorry for the absence — life has been crazy.
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There are lots of mean girls, and most of them are older than 18, and should know how to behave better. I’ve really noticed this mean girl mentality in the scrapbooking world — and I don’t mean recently.
When I taught at an LSS ages ago, I was simply dumbfounded by the two-faced antics of some of the people who I encountered. Sugary sweet to someone one minute, then ripping them apart when they are out of sight. I’m sure the people who were oh so nice to me were being nasty behind my back. But I didn’t care what they thought: my opinion of myself was more important.
That’s not to say there aren’t mean boys. But I don’t know anything about that, being female. I’ll leave that for some guy to comment on.
A friend emailed me today to ask why women are so mean. Here’s what I wrote in response:
Insecurity. Those who are insecure are mean to others to prove they are superior/better than the others.
Those who are secure don’t give a rat’s ass about what other people think. We know we are fine just the way we are and aren’t threatened by others. Therefore, we don’t have to be mean.
At this point in my life, I have friends who just care that I am honest, a good listener, enjoy a good laugh, and will be there if they need me. And vice versa. Anyone else can go jump.
That’s the “crabbiness” of maturity. It’s a wonderful gift. Too bad not everyone will accept the gift.
So, instead of being a mean bitch, I’m just crabby in that I don’t put up with shit. I don’t associate with shit. I don’t give a shit. If you’re not going to be true and honest with me, I don’t want to deal with you. That’s it. I have no need for revenge or attempting to prove myself better.
That’s what I’m trying to teach my girls, because they will be hitting the Mean Girls early entry time very soon. My hope is they won’t be the mean girls. I know they will have some interaction with mean girls; I hope they know they are better than that and just walk away.